When you have just terminated a relationship that you were not keen on ending, you are suddenly plunged into a dark phase of your life. At this stage, there is a very high probability that all you are thinking about is to salvage the relationship and get your ex back.
The other side of the coin is that you have no idea how to do so. Listed below are some handy tips that you could use in working towards getting him back.
The first thing that you need to take note of is the fact that regardless of whether you want him back or not, your life has got to move on. This is a fundamental principle as it allows you to do what is right, first and foremost for you. This is definitely easier said than done, considering the heartache that follows a breakup. In addition to this, you would also have to recognize that whichever the outcome of the breakup, you should be okay. Remember that many other people tread the road that you walk, so keep a positive attitude.
With such principal tips, the next thing that you probably might be aware of, but need reminding is the simple fact that there are things that you could do in order to win him back. More importantly however, are the things that you must avoid in totality to get your ex back. This is because there are many things that a lonely woman who has just suffered a break up is predisposed to.
Communication mishaps. Seeing as getting a second chance at a relationship is hinged on communication issues, it is best to avoid any mishaps that may reduce your chances of getting him back. Two of the most notable mishaps include drunk dialing and Text Message Terrorism, also known as TMT.
Drunk dialing usually occurs when you are drunk, just as the name implies. During this time, the idea of calling your ex to confess what you feel about him as well as reminisce the good times seems very viable. TMT refers to the act of excessive texting or calling so that your ex feels as though they are at hostage courtesy of their phones.
Do not be on a solo mission during this critical stage; get a support group, whether it is friends at work, at church or at your local gym. Family also counts for something, especially because we all have at least that one family member who knows us too well, and is well aware of what is happening. Someone who truly cares about you will want to see you happy. Such support, both physically and emotionally is a boost to helping you get back on your feet.
Sometimes all you need is a listening ear. If people who have been imprisoned and social misfits have the capacity to get their ex partners back using mind games and control techniques, there is indeed a chance that you can have your relationship back as well.